Posted: 7/17/07 8:47 PM

i.jenna

I just started having sex with my boyfriend and for some reason he can't get hard. I try not to say anything about it because I don't want to embaress him, but frankly, I'm the one who's embarressed. I ask him what's wrong and he says nothing. He comes up with weird reasons like "I think you worked me out", or "You're like my kryptonite". What's with him? Is he nervous? Scared?

Posted: 4/24/10 10:23 AM

Guest

I'm in a similar situation, it's just nerves i think, and as was mentioned earlier, the thought of it happening again makes it worse, i'm going to try and make it so i;m the initiating it when i know he's up for it, i think with him sometimes it's because he's worried he's pushing me into it and that puts him off. Try not to let it get to you, it's probably affecting him much worse, just don't rush it, at the end of the day a relationship shouldn't revolve around sex, and you can get please in many other ways ;p

Posted: 2/22/11 11:04 PM

Guest

I have the same problem with my boyfreind and I feel so crap all the time and I feel so unatrctive because of it, I cant cope so think we may split up over it .